A guide to safe sex during pregnancy
Pregnancy is a time for great sex for some couples and for some it may be a time of concern and fears. Many find pregnant body very desirable and few feel very anxious about the baby's well being. It is very important to discuss your doubts and fears about sex during pregnancy with your partner and also take it openly and discuss it with your doctor. Open communication will be the key to a satisfying and safe sexual relationship during pregnancy.
How safe it is to have sex during pregnancy
Gynecologists are of the opinion that sex in uncomplicated pregnancies have been found to be safe. An uncomplicated pregnancy is the one that's considered low-risk for miscarriage or pre term labor. If you are uncertain about whether you fall in this category or not you should consult your doctor.
Many expecting mothers find that their desire for sex unsteady during pregnancy. Few also observe that sex becomes awkward as they stay preoccupied with the impending delivery and the excitement of becoming a new parent.
Relationship expert suggests that its very crucial for you and your partner to keep the lines of communication open regarding your sexual relationship. Also, try talking about other ways to satisfy your need for intimacy, such as kissing, caressing, and holding each other. It is also suggested to experiment with other positions for sex that are the most comfortable.
When It's Not Safe to have sex during pregnancy
Doctors advises two types of sexual behavior that aren't safe for any pregnant woman
If you engage in oral sex, your partner should not blow air into your vagina. Blowing air can cause an air embolism (a blockage of a blood vessel by an air bubble), which can be possibly fatal for mother and child both.
You should not have sex with a partner whose sexual history is not known to you or who may be suffering from sexually transmitted diseases, such as HIV. If you become infected, the disease may be transmitted to your baby, with potentially dangerous results.
If your doctor or health care provider notices certain significant complications with your pregnancy, he or she is likely to advise against sexual intercourse. The most common risk factors consists of-
- a history or threat of miscarriage
- a history of pre-term labor (you've previously delivered a baby before 37 weeks) or signs indicating the risk of pre-term labor (such as premature uterine contractions)
- unexplained vaginal bleeding, discharge, or cramping
- leakage of amniotic fluid (the fluid that surrounds the baby)
- incompetent cervix, a condition in which the cervix is weakened and opens prematurely, raising the risk for miscarriage or premature delivery.
- Multiple fetuses( you're having twins, triplets, etc.)
The bottom line of sex during pregnancy is to have fun, listen to your body, and be open with your partner.